Do People Reciprocate Your Time And Attention?
Relationships need to be mutually beneficial. How many times have you dropped everything for a friend to help save the day and then a few months later you start going through problems with work, at home, or in your relationship and they are no where to be seen? Yes of course we are all to give without expectation, but set your boundaries with people you feel take advantage of your kindness. Personal boundaries with time is absolutely essential for successful people, respecting and validating your own sense of worth. Most people will take a mile when you give them an inch unfortunately, acting in a place of entitlement. Avoid these social leeches and solidify your relationships that have been established on the foundation of reciprocation, they will always be the most rewarding and enduring. (Read 6 Tips For Healthy Relationships)
Do You Sit In Constant Negative Anticipation?
One of the best indicators of your ability to stay on track in life, is your anticipation mindset. Do you sit in worry and fear of what is to come, thinking that you will only face challenges along the way? If you find this to be your situation, you will need a drastic perspective change. Negative anticipation, a form of visualization can drag you right off the rails, and bring your journey towards life’s riches to a halt.
Let go of that strong ability you have to compound small problems on top of each. Focus on the doors opening in perfect order on your journey. If you look for beauty in the world, you will be amazed at all the magnificence around you. But, if chose to look for problems that may or may not arise in life, chances are everything will seem as a struggle. What lens are you choosing to guide yourself with today? (Read Challenging Negative Anticipation)
Do You Strive To Break Out of Your Comfort Zone?
Do you light your torch each day from a flame of fear or courage? Do you want to live on a higher plateau in life and tell all of your friends about your grandiose plans and yet remain stuck with the same levels of reward each week? Chances are you need to elevate your game and start extending your action levels each day. While maintaing that posture of success, push yourself through your limitations you have been guiding your actions every year, creating a new baseline. It is simple refinements to your day that free up the most time, minor refinements in the wheel. We all strive for more time and freedom in life but rarely change our habits of action. The sad reality is that if you don’t adjust your habits each day you will remain stuck in a less than abundant life. Stretch yourself today and live with vigour! (Read The Shocking Truth About Successful People!)
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